"God's happiness consists in enjoying and rejoicing in himself; so does also the creture's happiness. it is a participation in what is in God, and God and his glory are the objective ground of it. The happiness of the creature consists in rejoicing in God, by which also God is magnified and exalted." -Jonathan Edwards.

"Not unto us, not unto us, O Jehovah, but to they name give glory (ps. 115:1)"

So it seems when I'm dissatisfied I should look to see who I seek to glorify myself or God.